Groom

Grooming for the Groom

Conventional wisdom holds that all eyes will be on the bride, and for the most part, they will be, but the Groomgroom will certainly have his share of the spotlight and should look his best. Arrange to have a haircut two weeks before the wedding to give the cut time to fill in. consider having a facial a week before the wedding and a manicure the day before. Many fine men salons offer such services.

Above all, you should have a good close shave two hours before the wedding. You can have it done by a barber, but the closest shave are those you give yourself fine shaving accoutrements-pre- and aftershave lotions, shaving soap or cream, a badger-hair brush, and a well-balanced razor-provide an excellent shave. Take a hot shower after your shave to open your pores and soften your whiskers.

Apply pre-shave lotion to tone your skin and lift the whiskers away from your face. Apply a layer of shaving soap or cream to your still wet face, and lather. Shave with the grain to reduce irritation. For stubborn patches, shave from the side. If you still need to get closer, apply a second layer of shaving soap or cream, and shave again, at a right angle to the beard. Rinse and apply an aftershave or moisturizer. Treat any nicks or
cuts with a styptic pencil and let dry before you put on you shirt.


GROOM’S ATTIRE
Things to consider: The groom should select his attire based on the style of the wedding. Other things to consider include the bride’s dress and time of day the wedding takes place. In very formal weddings, the men (Father of the bride and groom and groomsmen), will take a cue from the groom.

It is recommended that men should try and coordinate their outfits. The groom can stand apart from them, however. A different tie or boutonniere will distinguish him, with a tuxedo, he might wear a cummerbund instead of a waistcoat, for example. A tuxedo is the formal jacket worn by men on special or formal occasions.

Options: Use the following guidelines to select attire for the groom:

AFRICAN WEDDING ATTIRE FOR MEN
African design suits or shirts with a western twist giving an overall sophisticated effect are very popular.

DRESSING THE RING BEARER
Instead of a tiny tuxedo or a morning suit, dress the ring bearer in an outfit that’s appropriate for his age. Choose comfortable footwear, such as loafers or lace-ups, which are easy for the young attendants to put on.

COLLARS

Collars
  • The High Wing Collar - usually worn with a pre-tied cravat.
  • The Victorian Wing Collar - has a high back and a double cuff and is usually worn with a self-tie cravat.
  • The Normal Collar Day Shirt - usually worn with a tie or a self-tie cravat.
 


CHECKLIST FOR THE GROOM
A Year to go
• Work out your total wedding budget with your fiancé and decide where you’d like to allocate most of your cash. This is also the time to set a date to consider the type of wedding you both want – a large and small, religious or civil, at home or abroad.

• Draw up your guest list. Determine how many guests you can invite by writing down all the must-includes and then split the remainder between the two families and each other.

• Choose your best man and ushers.
• Buy your rings.
• Book the honeymoon.

6 Months and counting
• Organise your wedding day transport
• Choose outfits for yourself, your best man and your ushers.

Only 3 Months
• Book your first night.
• Finalise your honeymoon plans

1 Month to go
• Enjoy a fantastic stag night!

1 Week to go
• Collect your outfits
• Visit the hairdresser’s for a trim
• Pack for your honeymoon

On The Day
• Get up in time to eat breakfast – you don’t want to feel faint in the church.
• Double check with your best man that he has the allimportant rings.
• Leave the house with time to spare – this is one day when no one, least of all your bride, will thank you
for being late!
• Finally, remember to relax and enjoy your special day Other Duties
• Make sure all the bills are settled: rings, ceremony, choir, marriage licence or certificate, flowers, cars, reception, photographer, any hired outfits, and the honeymoon.


 

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